The only way to grow and bear fruit is to be planted. This is true for trees. It’s also true for people. You must learn to commit yourself to a local church. You need to get planted in order to bear fruit spiritually. Visiting churches, and not committing to any, is like dating lots of women but not deciding to love one person. You may have lots of shallow experiences, even fun experiences, but you will never experience the true joy of being in a committed relationship. The latter is far, far better than the former.